![]() ![]() Shortly before the beginning of the Hundred Year War, Aang was frozen in an iceberg for a hundred years he later emerged, still biologically twelve years old, into a world engulfed by war. He was also one of a select few Avatars and one of the first in many cycles to learn the ancient art of energybending as well as the first Avatar known to have actively used the technique. As the Avatar of his time, he was the only person capable of using all four bending arts: airbending, waterbending, earthbending, and firebending. More about Aang History Book One: Water (12 BG - 100 AG)īook Three: Fire (Summer 100 AG) Post war (Summer 100 AG - 102 AG) Relationships Aang's relationships Other Media Aang in the films Aang in the games Aang in The Last Airbender video game Aang in the pilot episode Image gallery (717) Aang was an Air Nomad born in 12 BG and the Avatar during the Hundred Year War, succeeding Avatar Roku and preceding Avatar Korra. Zach Tyler Eisen (in Avatar: The Last Airbender).“Your kids require you most of all, to love them for who they are, not to spend your whole time trying to correct them. Here is another excellent illustration option below, which was found on the Gottman family website CLICK FOR GOTTMAN LINKĬhildren, by lousy behavior and anger outbursts, are just attempting to say, “I really need and would like a much more loving, positive attention… then your discipline and advice.” Instead, I try to lead with a heart to help, with useful tools like anger iceberg illustration above CLICK FOR PDF FROM INNER GROWTH. Therefore, there is no use judging a caregiver needing more effective methods to help reach angry kids and youth. This is an ongoing journey for many parents and caregivers. Sometimes understanding how we feel gives us options in our reactions. ![]() This anger iceberg tool may also illustrate what feelings are really underneath brewing. But what else is to be expected of them if most of the time with them is spent yelling? If this is the approach, both parents and children will continue to rise up the escalator of anger. Furthermore, if teens stay upset, they may resort to harmful behaviors to cope with their emotions.Īfter reconnecting with the child or adolescent, I personally revert to reviewing the importance of showing respect and consideration for authority figures, including therapists.įor some, this part of parenting is the most difficult, and it seems like a quick fix to have someone else fix/discipline our children. It can take more work to earn the privilege of connecting if they are consistently angry. Teens often require more time and effort than younger kids. It seems both children and youth mostly understand genuine love and care more than anything else. ![]() When kids are little, reconnecting can be more straightforward because giving attention and kind words are the primary solutions. These kids also tend to struggle significantly with anger. I also do not judge caregivers who have spoiled their kids with a lack of discipline, thereby losing their respect. Did I say many? For this reason, I do not judge parents and caregivers who struggle. It requires us, caregivers, to reach beyond the anger for their HEART.Īs a mom of six children (plus a few extras), I understand the many many challenges of parenting. It’s much harder to connect first than to demand kids fix their actions and attitude. “it is better to connect before we correct.” Family-based counseling therapeutic methods taught me a great saying: Anger among caregivers is an area I struggle with, from being and working with Parents. ![]()
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